I believe that a lot of transgender hookup finders, like me, are looking for trans hookup through these real dating sites. On these real trans dating sites, I know a lot of transgender people. Talking with them, I learned more about the transgender. This not only broadens my vision, but also helps the development of my trans dating relationship. Through the communication with them, I found that many transgender people are suffering from a kind of trouble, that is gender dysphoria. I know it's a struggle for them and it's hard to bear.
For a MTF or FTM, this feeling is very painful. They can't stand their assigned sex and the sexual characteristics that come with it. Under the limited economic conditions, they can't change their sex. All they can do is ignore or hide. For a bisexual, they don't object to any particular organ. Their only feeling is a sense of loss, that their bodies lack certain attributes. It can be seen that for different kinds of people, gender dysphoria has different impacts on people. In addition, even for the same population, its impact will vary from person to person.
Generally speaking, this gender dysphoria is mainly reflected in two aspects, one is about their inner feelings, the other is about their appearance. First of all, let's talk about their inner feelings. Take FTM as an example. Her gender at birth was a woman, and people around them treated her as a woman. However, as she grows older and more mature, she will gradually realize her rejection of the fact that she is a woman and her impulse to change her sex. But, all these inner activities, only she knew. This kind of inconsistency between gender identity and assigned sex will bring her a lot of troubles and inner suffering. Let's talk about their external manifestations. Because different sex is closely related to specific social activities and culture, they can only be forced to engage in activities consistent with the assigned sex. Once they express their gender freely, they may be regarded as eccentric by the society.
In any case, we should not force us to do something we are not willing to do because of others' words. What we should do is to make ourselves happy, not to please others. Therefore, we should take certain measures to protect us, rather than repress this emotion. First, you need to identify your gender identity emotionally. It's not your fault that your gender identity is not consistent with your assigned sex. Moreover, this is not a mistake in itself. You have to face up to the idea and find ways to make yourself comfortable. If you feel that the people around you don't understand you or accept you, then you should stay away from them and seek partners who share the same interests with you. In addition, you should be bolder to express your gender. No one says it's a fault that you wear the opposite sex's clothes. The most important thing is that you can be happy. As long as you don't hurt anyone else, nothing else matters.
